Sunday, August 11, 2013

"...Even TMZ Will Have To Google..."

 A life of eighty four years.

A successful marriage of more than fifty years

A successful show business career of nearly sixty years.

And there's a pretty good chance that you've never heard of her.

Ironically, that's a good thing.



(CNN) -- Singer Eydie Gorme, who enjoyed decades-long success as half of the duo Steve & Eydie and as a solo artist in her own right, has died. She was 84.

She is best known in the English-speaking world for her 1963 Grammy-nominated "Blame it on the Bossa Nova." In the Spanish-speaking market, Gorme's major hit was 1964's "Amor."
 
Gorme died Saturday in Las Vegas after a brief illness, her publicist said -- without disclosing what had ailed her.
 
Her husband Steve Lawrence, her son and other family members were by her side at the time.
 
"Eydie has been my partner on stage and in life for more than 55 years. I fell in love with her the moment I saw her and even more the first time I heard her sing," Lawrence said.

"While my personal loss is unimaginable, the world has lost one of the greatest pop vocalists of all time."
 
Gorme was born in New York on August 16, 1928 to Sephardic Jewish parents.
 
Her father, Nessim Garmezano, was a tailor from Sicily whose last name -- as was the norm at the time -- was changed by customs officers at Ellis Island when he arrived in the United States.
 
Gorme began singing straight out of high school with various big bands. But her big break came after she auditioned for, and joined, "The Tonight Show" in 1953.
 
There, for $90 a week, she sang solos and sang duets with the up-and-coming Steve Lawrence.
 
"I mean, she could sing with me, with Andy Williams, Placido Domingo," Lawrence told CNN's "Larry King Live" in 2003, commenting on Gorme's three-octave range. "She could sing with just about anybody."
 
The two performed on the show for five years, and married in 1957.
 
"I just fell madly in love with him," Gorme said in the same interview.
 
After their "Tonight Show" stint, the pair had a short-lived TV show of their own, "The Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme Show."
 
Then, Lawrence entered the Army -- leaving Gorme, a new mother, to frequent the night club circuit on her own.
 
"I was traveling and working alone while he was in the Army and taking my baby with me everyplace, and it was very difficult," Gorme said.
 
Two years later when Lawrence was discharged, the couple came to a decision.
 
"I said, 'Either I'm going to quit and just stay home and be a housewife,'" Gorme said, "'Or maybe we should, I don't know, try and get something ...'"
 
"We started working together out of necessity," Lawrence added.
 
Their career took off, with audiences drawn to their penchant for the classics in favor of rock 'n' roll -- as well as their spontaneous banter.
 
"Well, we never rehearsed the first night," Gorme said.
 
"No, we never did. We never did. And we still don't," Lawrence said.
 
Their two boys -- David and Michael -- traveled with them. Gorme would, in her words, "hotel school" them.
 
When Michael Lawrence was 23, he died of ventricular fibrillation, a heart condition.
 
"It was very hard for all of us, but it's still very hard," Gorme said.
 
"You don't deal with it, you just go on as best you can. And fortunately, we all held on," Lawrence said.
 
For a year, the pair mourned. Then they decided to go back on tour, with their surviving son David joining them on stage on the piano.
 
The pair continued touring well into the 2000s.
 
During their long career, they toured with Frank Sinatra, threw the first pair of dice in Atlantic City and recorded a lounge version of Soundgarden's grunge classic "Black Hole Sun."
 
"I'm very thankful that Eydie and I, not only do we have a great love, and a great friendship," Lawrence said.
 
In addition to her husband and son, Gorme is survived by her granddaughter.
 
Services are pending and will be private.
 
 
Every generation has its own circle of celebrities.
 
That's only natural.
 
Sometimes, their fame and/or the accomplishment lifts one to a level of familiarity that makes their particular celebrity, for lack of a better term, timeless.
 
Not everyone, for example, knows the name Ramon Navarro.
 
But he was, to the movie audiences of the 1920's and 1930's, what George Clooney is to the movie audiences of today.
 
And, current popularity notwithstanding, it's entirely possible that eighty or ninety years from now, few people will know the name George Clooney.
 
That's okay.
 
Not everyone can be Humphrey Bogart.
 
Eydie Gorme was of the celebrity circle best known to my parents generation, first, because she was literally of that generation, born in the 1920's.
 
Also because her limelight shown most brightly in the 1950's and 1960's, the years just after my grandparents admired and enjoyed, say, Al Jolson and just prior to the years my generational peers and I admired and enjoyed The Beatles.
 
It's a sure bet were you to ask people to identify Eydie Gorme today, the larger number of people would be unable, those few that might take a shot at it would likely miss by varying degrees.
 
"Eydie Gorme, oh, yeah, wasn't she that singer they called the Velvet Fog or something?"
 
No, that was Mel Torme'.
 
"Oh, yeah, didn't she have that cooking show on TV way back in the seventies?"
 
No, that was the Galloping Gourmet.
 
"Oh, yeah, she's the one that invented that ice cream."
 
Uh, no. That was a different Edy.
 
The point of all this is that its perfectly understandable that the majority of today's average Jane and Joes wouldn't recognize who Eydie Gorme was any more than my generation recognized Ramon Navarro.
 
That was then, this is now.
 
Here's a thing, though.
 
In a modern day culture overflowing with celebrities more infamous than famous, more notorious than noteworthy, more sensationalistic than sensational, there is a poignancy and not just a little irony to the fact that very few people will, in fact, know who she was.
 
Because, in the light of this modern day culture, what she accomplished was remarkable.
 
A life of eighty four years.

A successful marriage of more than fifty years

A successful show business career of nearly sixty years.

And such a lack of infamy, notoriety and sensationalism that there's a pretty good chance you've never heard of her.

Somehow, I can't help but think that, sixty years from now, people will still recognize the names Lohan.

Or Kanye.

Or Kardashian.

And that's a sad thing.

While today, most people don't recognize the name Eydie Gorme'.

And, ironically, that's a good thing.
 
 
 
 
 
 

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